PRINCIPLES
- Surrender
- Patience
- Humility
- Acceptance
- Integrity
- Joy
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Give up having to have my way about anything. |
As a kid, I often jumped the fence myself for the excitement and fun offered on the other side. At first, it was fun. I thought I got away with my misbehavior. In truth, every jump took me out of the care and protection of those who cared most for me. Every jump took me down a path toward selfish, self-centered loneliness and dishonesty. I was disconnected when I could not fully share who I was and what I did with those who loved me. I always played by some rules just to get by. I was given all I required and more. What I had was not enough. I needed more. I grabbed and got more. When I got "it" or "there", the absence of desire left a hole I sought to fill again. I rarely got enough. As an adult, restlessness lessened but was never gone. Out of the Results Business: Now I realize that the results are always favorable when I think and act based on principles. I act as if the Will of God is for me to never intentionally do the wrong thing ever again. The "wrong thing" is bounded by the principles as imaged by the playground fence. I am free to pursue any thought or action-path that matches these principles. I can play any game, dance any dance inside the fence. I am in my will alone when I knowingly pursue a thought or take an action contrary to the principles. My will seeks predetermined results. By following God's Will I can look forward to the unexpected; look forward to see what favorable results these spiritual tools will conjure out of reality which is "The Unexpected". The Power behind a solid kit of spiritual tools, consistently applied, removes any reason for resentment or fear; removes the need to seek a particular outcome; removes the need to manipulate others as a means to an end. Pause: The key to coming into harmony is to pause when planning my day or when agitated or doubtful. Take a look at my thinking, actions or intentions. Ask for the knowledge of God's Will. I smile at my little plans and designs. I look for solutions laying at my feet. I then stop thinking and acting for a moment. In that space between my thoughts I find an intuition that knows right from wrong - a God consciousness. There is an awareness there that can direct my thinking and actions based on universal principles. I breath deeply. I immerse myself in the Now. I become aware of the Presence of God by becoming aware of reality as manifested in my body and the world around me. Solutions at My Feet: From where I stand today there are an infinite number of directions I can go. I call it the solutions laying at my feet. If half are outside the fence, that leaves half of infinity inside. My choices are not truly limited. Any one of the right paths will be fulfilling in itself. Any will lead to favorable results. Which is the best path? There may be no one best path. It helps if I imagine balance in my life. What areas need attention: family, health, fun, education, spiritual, economic. I ask how my choice will affect the balance. No Action is kept as a viable option. I then choose and promptly act accordingly. My experience with this approach indicates that there are wrong choices but no one choice is ever THE right choice. This is Freedom. |
Now I Am Enough I pause to breathe the misty air Once I tried to pierce the fog I do not care if little things Today I cease the question why (© quoted by permission 12/20/2008)
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God, Thy Will be done for them as well as for me. |